ScottHermanFitness2 months ago

If you don't learn how to deal with people and say what you need to say, that is a terrible habit that will follow you your entire life. You will never get ahead in your job if you are afraid to speak up or ask for a raise / promotion and you will never be happy in your relationships with friends and family because they won't know how you truly feel.But worst of all, if YOU don't value yourself then nobody else will, ESPECIALLY STRANGERS. I really hope this video helps you guys realize that you can still be a kind, polite and generous person, but still have the backbone to not let people walk all over you. Comment below if this video resonated with you. I would really love to hear your thoughts and opinions on the topic! GUARANTEED GAINS "FREE PROGRAM DOWNLOAD" - muscularstrength.com/guaranteed_gains_sign_up_FREE

Daniel Lopez3 days ago

Great video as always Scott! Keep making more videos like this !

Al Taylor12 days ago

I'd love more life advice videos like this one. I personally look up to Scott quite a bit and as I'm finishing University soon and starting my career, I feel like there could be quite a lot I could learn that could help me

Alexander Onate22 days ago

Dude in the video cover kinda looks like. @ barbarianboby

Charlie In Westeros24 days ago

Woot, I'm the 1000th like. Great video Scott! :)

Adam SealMonth ago

Wait you’re 36 years old and you have a 21-year-old daughter?

your god is in the mirrorMonth ago

Ummm being assertive and roid rage are two different things... 😂 But hey I aint judging 😂

steevan wong keitaro kusanagiMonth ago

i love the meme " ENGLISH! Motherfxxker! Do you speak it?! "

Im TerrellMonth ago

More videos like this

eteritoMonth ago

Scott, you're the dad that I wish I had.

Info Collector2 months ago

Definitely been there with lazy group members

frankg4612 months ago

Thank you Scott for this video and reminder to stand up for myself. My personal experience when I was younger elementary school, into until Freshman year in highschool was to get picked on until I got fed up then stand up for myself. After that I learned to basically say from the get go, "this the line don't cross it" Since that time I have gotten better at finding a tactful methods of standing up for myself and not being intimidated by others. Although sometimes I need a reminder so again thanks.

Damon Prince2 months ago

Hey Scott, will you ever be collaborating with Austin Dunham again? Or possibly any other calisthenics guys.

mixed martial arts- Kung Fu Palestine2 months ago

Your channel is featured .... Master Kun Fu Muhanna

Robert Wadlow2 months ago

You were on a tv show? Nice

M. Lrbtqvi2 months ago

Sir, Are you from India???

Sir FishVI2 months ago

Good video Scott! This is a great lesson, I built two houses now and if you have to express what you want or else you have to live with what you didn't say, literally.

rfridaythe13th2 months ago

a good thing about being an introvert is never caring what other people think. i was always my true self, and didn't care about being part of the popular crowd, or being liked. so i've always defended myself. because if a person takes something too personal. when i criticize them, be truthful for their slacking. then i know we can only be co workers, but not friends

Electronic Punk2 months ago

Samuel L Jackson 😂

burton9752 months ago

Not good to be like you were. If I was the dispatcher- I would have put you on hold for a long time and then hang up on you. I really can’t stand when customers say “I want to speak to your supervisor”. My job , I sometimes have to talk to customers via phone and I’m not as knowledgeable on a topic and once customers exploit it they take advantage. One customer was awesome- because he said “there is a ton of info on this topic, I’ll email you everything and just learn”. He explained how something worked and I understood it much better. He explained it 100 times better than my trainer did, haha. Only time i get mad at customer service is when a company steals money. *Cough* frontier.

MissAlbaroudi2 months ago

More of these please! This was great.

Mika T2 months ago

I'm nearly 32, this video made me realise my perceptions of 36, and now I also feel old.

Sathyamoorthi Hariprassanth2 months ago

This man is really a life coach. Hey Scott, Thank you for all these knowledge 👍🙏

J Waco2 months ago

I think this is a topic that ties into fitness and health. Learning how to deal with the people around you especially if you have to work with them everyday is tough. It helps your mental health to learn different ways of treating people and to not emotionally react. I’m a 62 year old Ginger CrossFit athlete and runner, you know a lot of people get on my nerves. I still blow it. You never quit growing. Good job Scott

Action for Animals2 months ago

Nice video, Scott. I agree with your point about refraining from confronting b/c you want to be liked. But, no one should ever unload on an employee who did nothing wrong. I would have hung up on you if you yelled at me like that. I speak as someone who sometimes answers the phone from irate customers so I should know. As someone has commented already, take a step back so you don't react with anger. And, if you do, then apologize profusely, and send a gift to back it up. Also, what's up with the rage?

Logan Seaburg2 months ago

I really enjoyed this style of video. I am pretty young and this is some great advice. Keep up the awesome videos Scott!

Abhishek Mahendru2 months ago

I know plenty of people at work that you just want to slap someone's face off. You are right, if you are going to do the job and go above and beyond to do it, then why can't they do the same? Sometimes confrontation is needed. Someone said to me this, if you think someone is nice, its because you are, not them. It really depends on what you are doing.

Saiyan Lifestyle2 months ago

What makes me mad is when people say I achieved the things I did because of privilege and have a victim mindset. Or they know they need to change and they don't do anything about it

hektik2 months ago

I for one always try to listen to and at least consider any advice anyone has to give. And, for me, lifting is part of a larger desire to make myself better in every way possible, so this sort of thing, general self-improvement, is certainly in line with resistance training. I hope you do more of these style of videos. I'm down to hear whatever wisdom you might have gained

James2 months ago

Love these kinds of videos!

Mas Tun2 months ago

Ugh, group projects in college. I'm surprised Dante didn't include it in his version of Hell. Luckily my profs were nice enough to let me just give my own contributions and they flunked the lazy asses

Craig D. Rolle2 months ago

You are young Scotty! Stop it.

Ray132012 months ago

I never knew about you being in The Real World. What season were you on? I’m going to go watch. 🤣

Jr Mt2 months ago

Hey Scott good topic and valuable advice to young men and women. As a man in my 60s I have learned that being kind and being respected are not mutually exclusive. I made being kind my mantra in my workplace later in my career and received so much respect and gratitude upon my retirement that it completely bowled me over - it actually sunk into my coworkers and made it a better and more productive workplace overall. Keep it real as always.

MrLugar452 months ago

00:58 "for those who are young and goung trough some changes". For a sec I thought Scott was gonna give us 'the talk' :D

Mamoon Ahmed2 months ago

Good stuff, Scott appreciate the advice

Justin Vasilievas2 months ago

Sound like a Libra. They have red hair when they need to use it.

Denisa Oprea2 months ago

Really enjoying this kind of content, keep up with the good work 💪🏻

scott Peattie2 months ago

Thanks for the vid it’s some really great advice. I think especially now with heightened emotions across the world how to manage confrontation properly and respectfully is essential

Brian2 months ago

Damn good video Scotty

Robin Negus2 months ago

in regards to the video itself, anger is never an attractive attribute. A person can have the best argument, but delivered behind a veil of anger and excitement will be taken less seriously. “Calm is contagious” which is basically saying that if you want to resolve a problem keeping everything calm and concise has the most efficacy. I understand that ppl are not machines and tempers flare, but the true test of character is how fast you can recognize and control that overwhelming feeling to be a raving lunatic and simply deliver your point minus all the excess emotion and theatrics.✌🏼

Robin Negus2 months ago

Hey man! Just want to give a shout out to you and keeping quality content, seems like the youtube shit show is rampant right now, everyone is either at each other’s throats of making content based of the content of others. Thank you for staying out of that nonsense and just straight up passing out some life advice. You and I are the same age, but I definitely value and respect your views and opinions man. Keep on keeping on!🤘🏽

Olly Olly2 months ago

Lighting changed while on about editing wonder if Scott noticed that one 🤣

Kevin Pack2 months ago

love this video. it’s cool to hear your perspective

ss4vegeta12 months ago

I think it works both ways. Not everyone is going to have value or get value. Some people have conditions. I agree there is a time and place to rise up and defend yourself but note that not everyone has the skill set your emphasizing and the solution is not to say well that’s not my problem. Also there is a BIG difference between your time and someone respectfully using your time. It all depends. Personally I find too many people are too selfish these days as they try to fulfill their own needs.

BringTheLuck2 months ago

Sounds like this pool journey of yours has been hell lol

Kristijan Antolovic2 months ago

Man Scott... You seem to lose the grip on reality: these delivery guys do not earn much money and often by the numbers of deliveries they make per day. Calling everyone they have trouble with would greatly reduce the numbers of parcels they can deliver. IMO the fault lies with the companies paying a bare minimum. Waiting for a parcel sucks but give the dude/ttes some slack for their job, they dont get paid for a better service for you (or anyone)

Gökay Gülerman2 months ago

I am just writing to boost youtube algorithm

Truth X2 months ago

Ohh dude your finally got tshirt. I bet it was the xams gift. Just kidding lol. Respect man for the hard work throughout the years. From Saudi 👏🏼

Dennis T2 months ago

Dr Phil / Scott Herman 🤔🤔🤨

NikkZ2 months ago

Huge respect Scott..nice video...needed this!❤️

MattyInTheMorning902 months ago

Thank you Scott great information👍

Nicholas Domol2 months ago

Hello Mr. Herman I was wondering if you could help me out and provide feedback for this survey I am conducting for my college course.....I go to the University of Michigan.....thank you very much. umich.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_bqm9BJHAZmJLs2N

ShockWave ZERO2 months ago

Thank you so much for making this video. It truly is important. I'd give 100+ likes if I could. People really need to practice learning how not to just yell and to just simply be firm and have boundaries. Really hate the angry yelling to get points across. It's unnecessary and tends to trigger the mental security system to fight back with anger and such.

Ben Jamin2 months ago

Scott has a ton of experience he was even a sexy model, hubba hubba.

skeletorrobo2 months ago

Be polite, kind, professional (nice) Facing confrontation, stand up for yourself (not nice)

Erik Reisling22 months ago

Parenting 101: Getting pissed with someone on the phone is a reflection of your level of emotional intelligence

AndyHasFeet2 months ago

this video couldn't have landed at a better time - for me, it's with my sister; she has a tone that sends me from 0 to 120 in a heart beat.

David Sauceda2 months ago

Love the video, great topic!

zirks2 months ago

Screaming at service reps huh? So you’re that dude? Take a chill pill bro

Scotty Mac2 months ago

You're a good soul Scotty boy 😊

The Messenger2 months ago

This is the most important post you will ever read. Every one of us has sinned against God. We’ve lied, we’ve stolen, we’ve sinned sexually, and we’ve taken His name in vain; which makes us liars, thieves, fornicators and blasphemers.. Yet this is only four of our many transgressions. The problem is, we can never ‘outweigh’ our sin with good deeds because God is perfect in Holiness, meaning his standard is beyond our reach. He is also perfect in Justice, meaning, he will bring EVERY sin to light. The punishment for our sin is death, and Hell; a place of Eternal Fire, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. Fortunately God is also perfect in Love, so 2000 years ago, Jesus Christ left his throne in heaven and came to this earth. While here, he lived a perfectly righteous life, only to take the punishment that We deserved; Our sinless creator became Our sin, and endured a gruesome death on a cross for our sake. Right before he died, he said ‘it is finished’.. meaning, the debt for our sins has been paid in full. And on the third day, he conquered death and rose from the grave. So now, we can go free from the wrath of God’s judgement not by earning it, but rather, as a free gift of grace ; Except a gift can either be accepted or rejected..So this is what you must do in response; Humbly admit to God that you have sinned against him, and through gratitude in the sacrifice of his son, repent (turn away) from your old way of life. Then, confess with your mouth that Jesus Christ is Lord, your savior, and the ruler of your life from this moment forward (Romans 10:9). Do these things, and you will be saved. If you do so sincerely, God will grant you a new heart which no longer finds comfort in sin. He will also grant you Eternal life in his presence; The greatest pleasure on earth doesn’t even come close to what God is preparing for believers in the afterlife. You’ve been informed; Now the choice is yours. What you do with this information will determine where you spend ETERNITY, meaning, this is the single most critical decision you will EVER make; And all of us here, whether believer or atheist, know deep down that every last word here is true. Jesus Christ awaits YOU this very moment; don’t even think about sleeping tonight until you surrender your life to him, because your tomorrow isn’t guaranteed .. And as it is written (Hebrews 9 : 27) ; ‘It is appointed unto man ONCE to die , but after this, THE JUDGMENT’. All glory, honor and praise to Lord Jesus Christ. www.amazon.com/dp/1432117742/ref=emc_b_5_mob_i

Omar Elsherif2 months ago

The thumbnail threw me off i thought he was beefing with the dude from Barbarian physique. That's just Ricky apparently.

VibeSector2 months ago

Scott: explains the first back to the future People that for some reason haven’t seen it: “fuck, there goes that”

John Borealis2 months ago

I'm sick of these *censored* snakes on this *censored* plane.

TheMessiah2 months ago

Scott is such a bro. In a good way. He’s a person you would want as a close friend

Adam Brennan2 months ago

Hi Scott I have been watching you’re vids for a while, and you are completely right about being able to learn a lot from you’re experiences. You’re like 20 years older than me but even just from watching your vids my neck veins grow!😂 keep up the good work!

Lb962 months ago

I struggle a lot with confrontation. At the gym I work at, there's a guy who used to spit in various bins around the gym on multiple occasions, he's sound to talk to, I guess he was just brought up to think it was acceptable. I called him out on it the other week and it basically ended up with me calling him f**king disgusting after he started to backchat me. Not my most professional moment. It's just hard to keep composure sometimes lol. Although we did end up apologising to each other in the end and he hasn't spat in any bins since haha.

cristian c2 months ago

The fact that he was laughing just says that he felt nothing but good vibes from you 👍 wouldnt have done that if you were an asshole

Randog2 months ago

Confidence is not spelled: c-o-c-k-i-n-e-s-s. Good life lesson!

RabbiKrieg2 months ago

There's nothing wrong with being assertive, and holding your position or standing your ground when valid. There is something wrong with being a jerk, or being nasty, I mean I get it sometimes things happen and people lose their way. And around about way what I'm saying is I agree with you, great video.

Phil Roberts2 months ago

Here in the uk it’s very different. Here, the delivery company ensured that there is zero chain of communication or accountability between the courier and the sender so if the courier decided to just steal your package and take a shit in your letterbox, you will never be able to do a fucking thing about it.

sadida ulfah2 months ago

Do you have a video about how to fix skinny fat woman with home workout? Please make it 🙏

Randog2 months ago

Job accountability becomes more important with age. It's a good thing.

Kenneth Williams2 months ago

This shit is crackin me up keep em comin bro

King County2 months ago

Roid rage

Trollknot2 months ago

This is fantastic my dude. After having a rather frustrating experience with my boss at work this last week, this put things in perspective and helped me cool my jets. Appreciate you!

Danny Perez2 months ago

Florida has been like this lately. They don't call, there's no customer service its just if you're lucky they're on time. Its frustrating.

Tim2 months ago

I confused anger with confidence when I was younger. It wasn’t until training bjj that I learned how to be confident in unknown or fearful situations. I think martial arts, in general, is a good way to build confidence but bjj is the best for learning a healthy ego. More young men should get lessons on having a healthy ego when their younger. Thanks for the video!

Resident Evil Umbrella2 months ago

This advice would of came in handy back when I was in high school, because I dealt with bad people all the time. I don't know why I was picked on and bullied a lot back then, but it's people like teens and college-age kids and so many others is why I can't stand people.

Keron Williams2 months ago

How do you like Florida so far? I was born and raised in Central Florida, I love it!

Crew Aesthetics2 months ago

I thought Scott was at Greg’s house for a sec

addyy_boy2 months ago

Only 36? Bruh, Scotty you look so young!!

Ben Robinson2 months ago

Some good advice Scott, it's something I wish I learnt when I was younger also. Some things you end up learning the hard way, but it doesn't have to be that way. People are afraid of sticking up for themselves because they worry about the consequences of confrontation, but usually the consequences to doing nothing are much worse anyway. The times I didn't be more assertive I ended up being miserable or not getting where I wanted.

BrandonG972 months ago

Good video Scott! I’m 23 and I’m just learning how to be more outspoken and stand up for myself. And up until now I never knew how to or the confidence to do so, and it can have a huge impact on your life, especially with relationships.

Greg Doucette2 months ago

Good topic

tariqo162 months ago

this is exactly what i needed same thing happened to in last year

Pyxl Perfect2 months ago

I still remember when everybody from The Real World: Brooklyn got into a fight at that restaurant. Dang, I’m old.

clamum2 months ago

Good video big 🐕, do moar. This is something I should actually take to heart. I'm the same way as Matt from IG. And like you I was raised to do my job and do it to the best of my ability and it annoys me when others don't act like that. But I also don't want to cause problems and create drama so I tend to just let things slide. What can I say I'm pretty laid back lol. But I should really stand up for myself more often. I think this video has some great advice in it man, I appreciate it!

Peter Rivas2 months ago

I will pay to hear that recorded conversation with Christian 🙌😂

Nick Fusaro2 months ago

Oh kool. DAC and MATTY from BTTF. This guy is right. These things need to be taken to HAT and it's always best to avoid all the GABage.

Guy Lehman2 months ago

Dude 36 is not old you’re a young pup I’m 60 years old let me tell you something...

Guy Lehman2 months ago

Knowing your history sounds like roid rage. Haha just kidding

Darth Murray2 months ago

Great video, Scott! Would love to see more of these “life lesson” style videos in the future.

Barkage2 months ago

LOL the whole online fitness community could really use this video

Jose Garnier2 months ago

In my personal life I had confronted with a few friends with proof of their actions and not them and 5 plus years of friendship didn't matter I've lost so many friends because they wanted me to not be mad and I never did except for that 1 thing they do and I remain 1 true friend who help each other and I stop confronting people and just let them fail on their own and im less stressful and happier. I don't know if this is the right choice but I'll find out in the future

CrimsonSlayer72 months ago

Dude I honestly thought you were younger. 👏🏾💪🏾 I honestly do agree, at the age of 26, I too wish I was more confrontational. At the end of the day, if their actions will leave you to suffer the consequences, then do something about it. Still be respectful. I believe you shouldn't worry how they act, but worry how you uphold your respect and how you act. But also don't be a coward, if you are respectful and they try to punk you around, STAND YOUR GROUND. Literally had a guy step up to me threatening to fight me and I stared him dead in the eye and said make it happen. And nothing happened. Do not show fear, do not be a pushover, and do not be a bully. Find balance and stand up for yourself.

Tawny Lion 182 months ago

I saw that story on your ig and I'm just saying I don't wanna hear Scott ever call anyone a douchebag again, didn't get your package on time and decided to make a fuss about it cause god for bid I have and expensive house and live in a fancy neighborhood and I don't get my package on time, gimme a break. This was a good video and Informative but my God that was ridiculous!!

Kevin Reil2 months ago

Gotta bring back another Dr. Tony video. Last one was insightful and hilarious.

Stephen Shores2 months ago

Scott sounds like you need to go to angry management 😤 class for help maybe you should ask God for some peace with your angry